It has being brought to my attention that many Nigerian girls practice black magic "juju" to woo men of their desire......
Call me naive, but I was under the impression this was confined to the capacity of my television set through the genius of Nollywood. What happened to diginity, and honour?
What will push an educated, elegant, well taught, ambitious Nigerian girl to such measures to get a man?
KINI BIG DEAL???
31 comments:
lol... wake up brother! but u just came back from lagos now, u mean u r not head over heels in love wit some girl yet... hmmm lets watch this space..
i'm stil laughing...
lol...Ask them o!
i am a nigerian girl and i understand the reason some girls might want to do juju, good men are not plenty, esp the rich ones
@ anonymous... I dont understand, you're trying to say that you dont see anything wrong in this????? that is so wrong... and beyond LOW.
Soulstar: this really scares me. to know that there're peolple out there that will go to such measures just to get a man is just.... *speechless* beyond me/ even my imagination... like anything good ever comes out of "juju". Seriously people should really wake up and learn from the mistakes of others... this is not the way forward..
I guess when people say that love or is that lust? makes you do stupid things, applies here...
Plain stupid applies here, come on ladies must you stoop so low?
what happened to knowing your self worth... ladies a man needs to pursue you and seek God first to find your heart, not you chasing him.
Worst of all basically falsely trapping the poor guy into some false sense of love that is non-exist, only due to the fact that you put a stupid spell on the poor soul...
Mz Wonderful
i understand what you saying mz wonderful but i have to tell you that you have to protect what you have and what you want, if there are girls out there doing it, chances are they are going to do it to your man. I will protect what i have by any means
ah ah well all I will say to all is you can choose actions but you cannot choose consequences, just know when madness falls where it came from and that Jesus loves you. I pray that you remember this.
because you will need his help to escape it.
Nawa o,i am ashamed by some of the things i just read. " U have to protect what you have by any means?" Wow, first of all if u feel u need juju to keep your man,then he is not meant to be yours to begin with.
What we nigerian women need to do is stop getting with men for silly reasons, and realize that men need to have that "connection". If u can't connect deeper with your man on that "higher" level no amount of juju can help u o. Those of u that are with ur DESTINED partner; then why fear, why worry; "what God has joined together NO MAN or FOOLISH juju can put asunder". Dats my 2 cents.
Ummm Mr soulstar by the way... who tried to entice with u juju now??? Spill da jist,lolol
Using juju does not protect "your" man, if anything, what you both have is no longer on an even footing. Look at it this way, if you have to use juju to hook a man, it means you havent got ANYTHING to attract him with - no intellect, no humour, no beauty, no sense of self worth - in order words, he doesnt want to be with you, you're forcing him to BE with you....where's the challenge????
PS: And when did man become a prize???
PSS: SoulStar, don't eat in any girl's house oh,lmao!
anything that is worth having is worth keeping. I am not as young as some of you and i know what it means to do juju because i need to hold men to do what i want. I have a car, a house and i have anything i want,i could be seeing on of your fathers.
soulstar, kini big deal??
your ass is just triflin' plain and simple...
everyone has a right to his or her opinion, no need for insults.like i said, you are all kids
that was me miss a
oh my days i dont believe what am reading...Well its no suprise these days cos the Word of God testifies that there will be an increased curiosity in the occult in the latter days.(1 Timothy 4:1)
Aima and Oreka i love what u said.Miss A if u dont like it at least u know the right path. If we are kids as the adult and experienced u should know aht is right and wrong. Well its everyday for the thief one day for the owner..the man will come to his senses that is why there is GOD..if u feel u need to do more Juju to keep hold of him for longer, there is really no diference between u and a witch. Anyone that does juju wether to get love or hold men in order to live in luxury is capable of anything including killing.Dont be lazy, work hard for your own money and dont expect to reap where u dont sow cos it'll bite
you big time.It might not be now but in a few yrs..God is patient and will forgive you if u decide to change but if u dont.u'll explain to him when u meet him on judgement day.God can never be mocked ,whether juju is used to heal, hurt or used for selfish purposes its abominable and damnable by God. He sees it as witchcraft.
For those girls and boys yes boys do it too...that feel juju is the only way out be warned because when God remembers you..it wont be easy..that car or house u feel ur enjoying can crash or burn in a minute..and u can be gone in a twinkling of an eye..all is vanity...be warned..
na wa o, money and juju goes like bread and butter, but always remember juju will come back and bite you
Well well well -- Guess I want to play the "devo;'s Advocate" here... How sure are that "juju" was used, and that if used it worked.. I hope what was seen here what not just a chap been swept away by the physical charms of some chick?????
lol @ drjax, na wa o
Ummmmm drjax for a doctor u make no sense. The situations we r talking about r those influenced by juju. The wondering eyes of a man who shud be committed to only his woman is another topic.... hmmm hint hint soulstar...
I'm quite disturbed by what I have read from a few of the comments. There is no justification for this at all. God gave us all free will, so it iS not in any other person's authority to take away that free will from someone else, thats what I believe jazz/juju is all about, slavery of the mind if you will.
In the bible it says HE that finds a wife, not SHE that finds a husband, there is a difference, and I think that is where alot of women are getting it wrong these days. The whole idea of 'finding a man'... It is very important that we as women know our worth, our value, our identity in christ. The Proverbs 31 woman is a wonderful example of womanhood. She planned her work according to her understanding of her purpose. A woman of excellence is a force to be reckoned with. There is absolutely no need to stoop so low to these acts of desperation to 'keep' a man. As long as the union is ordained by God, nothing shall pull you apart.
KNOW WHO YOU ARE AND WHAT YOU ARE WORTH!
Replying "Drjax" where a man is swept away by the physical charms of a chick to the extent that that he spends huge amounts of money on her without using his brains, is pure FOOLISHNESS.Because its not al abt physical appearances..u must have heard that all that glitters is not gold..some woman can suck u dry to the extent u can consider sucide.A man who foolishly spends money on a very pretty or attractive lady is her Maga. He makes her job easier.
Well this issue abt physical apearance is in no way related to the post..lol..
Juju is not the best way....it has its consequences..U might be enjoying it now bt later u will see the result.
@ anonymous -- The crux of my argument is that there is no way to independently verify the claims of the "juju" working.. The only info we have here is that some poor chap is drooling so badly over some chick that he's pumping all his resources to her to the detriment of some other chick.. That by itself is not enuf to say that its juju working
any relationship planted on false roots shall be uprooted, the devil does not give without taking more in return.
@drjax, i understand that men will always be men but be assured that juju is real, it works too
it is very sad that many Nigerian women will go through that measure to hold a man down,however i do think that it is down self worth, self esteem and honour.
Women who feel the need to use such measures are crying out to be loved, so let us embrace them and show them that money is not everything, love is....so mz A, holla at me for a hug.
I do hope that such women are minimum as i have not lost faith in the worth of the Nigerian woman.
Thanks for all your comments.....
wow, havent checkd this since i left the first comment..hmm, interesting read.
Miss A, i kind of understand where u r comin fom but like others have said, there are consequences for anything u do in life. i know u know that using voodoo is bad and d reward cannot be good. ask those who've one it b4 and learn from the naija movies.. it neva ends well. if u really want to keep ur man, do ur very best and pray that it works out. If he's yours, he'll stay. be blessd.
nicely said soulstar, you seem like a nice person and also very fine from your picture, email me queentracy@yahoo.com, i will like to meet you.
@Tracy. Another form of desperation in itself; Internet hook-ups!
Juju doesn't work on me...it just gives me opportunity 2 fuck enuf gal galsss..lol
this is not desperation, i just want to know the guy, thats all
oh dear! we're hooking up now..
Lmao this is just nice and funny ..here is another interesting stuff from u soulstar.well most pple are right as long as u use juju then u have nothing as a woman its just not worth it on the long run (watch naija movies to confirm) what will be will always be so why not just take it easy and let life take its course ..if hes really yours he'll stay and if not ,then life goes on.pls let me knw where these kinda girls are so we can be playmates juju dont catch some men u knw:-> im officialy immune to jujuism lol.
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